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Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Santa Cruz California

We had a wonderful weekend at the beach. We stayed in a Motel room it was clean but not a nice place had the basics no phone, no wifi, but it did have cable. I can't even remember the name of the motel not one room was vacant in Santa Cruz we had to drive back to San Jose we laughed hard because on our Honey moon we got lost in San Jose and ended up in a flea bag motel. We had a wonderful time remembering them we went to bed the next morning we found a Dennys ate breakfast outside because we had our dog.
He was not suppose to be on the beach loose he stayed in his bag we bought at Walgreens for $ 9.00

and Daddy and I enjoyed the day toooo




 

She could only whisper....and he heard

She never liked talking about those days. The days she woke only to do drugs all day all night and start again in the morning. She don't remember how long this went on When she woke up she was in Jail again. This was nothing new it was actually a good thing. A bed three meals no drugs at least until she could get things rolling. First let's start the game, request the infirmary for methadone or kick cold turkey she usually went cold turkey but she knew this time was different she had been using a lot the pain was unbearable, life was unbearable. She could not think of that now. If only she could remember why she got popped this time. She would try to stay clean but to much pain. She felt alone and confused. How did things get this bad? How did she end up on her way to prison? Wow, it all happened quickly.

She took her child to school that day she was in preschool. She was a perfect child never a problem. She made her promise to pick her up not to leave her. It was as if her child knew. She went back home finished getting high She never noticed the cars they were many surrounding her house. They came from everywhere Cops in riot gear, ATF, FBI, SWAT. What would the neighbors think after all she grew up in that house. She thought she would be okay their were no drugs left. Everything was used up. She thought but a cop came out of the room with rigs (syringes) and drugs where did those come from dam She knew her cousin had been at her house the Cops where after him but they settled for her. She was high her children were crying hitting the cops. One officer called them animals she told them they are scared let her calm them down. One White officer said okay the Mexican judged her. She didn't care she told him "unless you have been in my shoes don't judge her soul" at that point the officer asked her why if she was intelligent did she allow her life to get that bad. She look at the Mexican and said that is my family they rather take my children away than help me get up. He shook his head her parents showed up. They got the children and the one in preschool would know later. The white officer waited until the children to leave and he allowed her to kiss and tell them she loved them to say their prayers and read their bible. The middle child said you to mommy at the same time okay. Her child was two how would she know the time. Her child quickly ran back and hug her tight I love you mommy never forget that. She was high but some how this conversation has never left her mind. She also remembered the promised she broke again...man how did she get this deep in the game. She never did time every time she got lucky and got out. Not this time she had to fight this in court she was looking at the max of 8 years. She really didn't care at that point she was angry. The DA had her he wanted a rental agreement. She paid the bank for the house they said the house was bought with drug money. But if she pleaded guilty and did 16 months felony time state time. He would not arrest her parents. Wow she could not let that happen it didn't matter about her the children would be taken care of maybe she could change get a trade for a job when she got out. She hated every thing about herself not one thing was any good and now prison. How deep was this going to go the hole was getting deeper. She could get drugs in prison and business would start. She was in deep one night she woke up in a church service. Crying asking God to forgive her. She needed a second chance for she was at her worse. She was doing 16 months she started going to church and it was harder than you think every one of those inmates watched everything she did. They would start fights she would fight if she had to and she had to. Nothing was good in that place except the fact that half the place was family. Sad but true grandma called it the vacation resort. She tried had to begin to like herself and forgive herself she would only do the 16 months then it was over right. (While in prison unknown to her she was given 3yrs and 2 felonies.) she never knew until 25yrs later. She will one day be able to talk about her time here but she will never give the devil Glory God used this time to help her he heard her cry and he put her on the mountain top to find a way to stop abusing her body with drugs. She needed to be a GODLY Mother Godly women. This was her goal......

Monday, July 22, 2013

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Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Caring for an Elderly Loved one!!!!

July 2013
Before 2009 my daughter cared for my father she did the best she good with the information she knew about caring for grandpa. He was independent and cared for himself administering his own medications. We thought he knew what he was doing. in July of 2009 he had a stroke more than once that left him looking as though he can make his own choice for his self this is where we ended up with papa

 
 
He was almost 400lbs a little later we found out he had a spinal infection due to his sugar being out of control. At that time we had now idea he was diabetic. his sugar would go as high as 500 or 600 it was crazy he was not in his right mind his whole body shut down in the hospital and was semi comatose. We thought it was over the doctor asked us if he had be walking prior to this incident I said yes He said it was a miracle. My dad since then has gone thru many changes he changed for the independent man I once knew to a child requiring around the clock care. He is set in his ways living with me is not an option but spending the night sharing the care with others is easier. Sometimes it ends up on the shoulder of one person and it is to much. My father is a funny man we have to monitor his medication because he easily overtakes medication cause he forgets. I am looking to get a medication lock box dispenser. He is doing so much better but the care is hard even with help from IHSS because you get people who say they know how to do things and they don't know how to do something as simple as poking a finger and testing blood sugars. How can you trust them to dispense insulin especially if you must go on a sliding scale. It is scary you can accidently overdose your patients because you are not trained. I think state health worker should be offered an injection course, diabetic care, bed ridden care, these classes should be give free by the state for the betterment of our Elderly and disabled Americans. Their is an easy fix these people can kill your loved ones without intentions of doing so. Insulin is a drug that is very dangereous. here is my father out of the hospital
 
These are the most recent pictures and how much weight he has lost with a control diet. I recently changed his provider I should not have because he is not doing well with his sugar stress, food, change, everything effects his sugar

We are moving on the first to the bigger city due to work for my sons and I am moving my father shortly there after. My dad has always been there for me he may not have done the right things always but he did the best he could with what he knew. I thank God I was raised and loved by a man I call Father, Dad, Dadddy, Old Man and a few other names...lol If you help care for your parent or just want to talk find me on facebook and we can find answers for our parents online together. nanaroberta@facebook.com Thank you

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

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